December 2011
132 posts
Bébinn: For All Your Pro-Choice Needs!: Unpopular... →
teachthecontroversy:
I don’t think that if you’re under 18, you should have sex.
I think there is a lot of responsibility in having sex, between the emotional aspects, the pregnancy issues, and sexually transmitted diseases.
I think that some teenagers have the ability to handle it, and…
Bébinn: For All Your Pro-Choice Needs!: Whenever... →
saynathespiffy:
daskannnichtsein:
They become the literal epitome of anti-choice.
And I just sorta side-eye and go “how many of you fuckers wouldn’t be alive today if your parents only fucked when they were ready?”
Yep. And that last question is pretty important. A lot of us were…
We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension,...
– Anais Nin (via katelizabeth)
Women of today are still being called upon to stretch across the gap of male...
– The Master’s Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master’s House, by Audre Lorde (1979)
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It’s the disconnect of being trained since birth to look a certain way, only to...
– Emily McCombs On men who don’t like women in makeup (via bitterbuffalo)
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talking about virginity is so annoying to me, and here’s why- firstly it’s used...
– mutualaddiction responding to an ask saying she was hot because she was a virgin (via babrahamlincoln)
This is why Nicole is the best.
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I love it when my tumblr buddies get the recognition they deserve when they write awesome things.
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My favorite part: I’m...
Shaming young women for being sexual is nothing new, but it’s curious to observe...
– The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti (via ruhiella)
Military cemeteries around the world are packed with brainwashed dead soldiers...
– George Carlin (via indiscriminately)
A man sees in the world what he carries in his heart.
– Johann Von Goethe (via nirvikalpa)
The fatherhood bonus: Have a child and advance...
fuckyeahfeminists:
The careers of different men progress at different rates. That’s just as we would expect. Higher performers are rewarded; lower performers slow down. Our accomplishments guide our careers. Good workplaces are meritocracies — do your job well, and you’ll get ahead. That’s what we believe.
Or, at least that’s what we want to believe. But after a few years on the job, we...
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Sorry atheist and other non-theist men, apparently...
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nonplussedbyreligion:
I love my family. I don’t get along with them most of the time, and there are thousands of miles that separate me from the closest one, but good or bad they’re still mine. For Christmas, apart from the cards, only one person posted a religious based message on my facebook page, for them this is much progress. So forgetting who I was dealing with I just...
stfuprolife:
theowlintheolivetree replied to your post: you’ve probably heard of the Until Abortion Ends thing, that all the anti-choice fucks are giving up candy, fast food, and pepsi or whatever until abortion ends (which it will never even if made illegal). i think they should just give up breathing until abortion ends.
Yes, the innocent fetuses that they claim to be defending can’t breathe,...
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When a person is craving weight loss, they are never craving weight loss. Weight...
– Source (via stophatingyourbody)
Partying on New Year's Eve?
Don’t drink and drive-and don’t ride with anybody who does. Tipsy Tow offered by AAA: you don’t have to be a AAA member, from 6pm-6am on New Years Eve/day, they will take your drunk self and your car home for FREE. Save this number… 1-800-222-4357. Please reblog this if you don’t mind.
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You can’t do it alone. As you navigate through the rest of your life, be open to...
– Amy Poehler (via iamays)
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msandrogynous:
Little girl talks feminism on Amy Poehler’s show Smart Girls at The Party Show
Attention people with nose piercings: How much did...
I got mine in London for £26, including a stud. Didn’t get an infection until I exchanged the nose ring five months later for a stud that was way too short and after literally cutting into my skin caused an infection. I took it out and after a few days my nose-hole closed up. Not a lucky story ;) But the piercing itself was very quick, painful for only a 2 seconds and very easy to take care...
The thought that the greatest thing a girl could...
oneyoungfeminist:
Makes me want to cry or punch someone in the face.
*Note: This goes out to every possible gender, not just girls, not just boys.
All of these blogs toting, “When I lose ten/twenty/fifty pounds, someone will love me!” Okay. Here’s the thing.
1.) There are more important things than having a guy who loves you. I know it may not seem like it, but I promise. And if you base...
On the word classy.
simplyopinions:
bonjoursex:
As women, we are often told to “have some class.” This word has always irked me because it basically means, “Wow, look at how good she is at being a lady the right way, the socially acceptable way,” which is a weird fucking thing to say.
Classy means having or behaving like a higher-class member of society, amirite? Who inhabits this higher class, usually?...
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In the future, history classes will be told that...
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Disdain for “political correctness” is often positioned as a concern that some...
– http://www.whattamisaid.com/2010/02/conservatives-political-correctness-and.html
What Tami Said
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tehsunshine:
unbornrights:
“I am pro-choice. The CHOICE begins at the decision to have sex. That is how humanity reproduces. If you do not want to reproduce, do not have sex. You can wine all you want, it doesn’t change the truth.”
That’s cool. I assume that also means that you are opposed to providing medical treatment for vehicular accident victims because they made the CHOICE to get into a...
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THE SEX UNEDUCATED: On Purity Education and Its... →
whiteraven93:
iciclesandlemonade:
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theskinofourteeth:
daleksanddaisies:
Hey guys. Let’s talk about purity. I was raised in a Baptist church in the Deep South. I had a purity ring, and most of my bookshelf was stuffed with titles about “wearing white” and being “pure” and do you know what? The choice to not have sex until marriage is 100% valid and no one should make...
Gold embroidered hat-wearing Pope, carrying a... →
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MARGINALIZED & ALIENATING: [Trigger warning] On... →
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fox-power:
As a sex- and body-positive person, I know that there is nothing wrong with having consensual sex with whoever you want, and that human bodies are beautiful. As a survivor of rape, anything even vaguely connected to sex causes guilt and fear, and that my body is a source of weakness and…
It’s a catch 22 and one of the biggest bitches in my personal life. I’m going to be...
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There is no organized political movement to punish or condemn a woman for...
– Linda Weber’s Life Choices: The Teachings of Abortion
[This was written in a ciscentric context. There are those who can become pregnant who do not identify as women, and there are women who cannot become pregnant.]
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ayries:
TotalRandomness: By the way
lizardkitsch:
khaleesi:
People want what the media tells them to want. Young people are especially susceptible to this, especially young girls. You can do all the market research you want, it can be as intensive as you want, it can take years and years, but if the only images we are projecting for our girls are ones of thin white women with breasts bared...
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CaptainSonic: occupyonline: DOCUMENTARIES:... →
occupyonline:
DOCUMENTARIES: Knowapower put up a nice, comprehensive list
I haven’t seen all of these, but that all sound interesting.
Affluenza
A documentary movie entitled “Affluenza” in 1997 is an innovative film that diagnoses a serious social disease. It is caused by…
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transdyke:
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teachthecontroversy:
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teachthecontroversy:
“The patriarchal idea that pregnancy is the only reason for a woman to have sex is one of the fundamental social idiocies of patriarchy - the idea that women’s sexuality exists only for procreation, except when it is for male pleasure. Thus, sex is “good” for those purposes and “bad” for any other, such as...
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nessfraserloves:
“The assertion that every woman should want every pregnancy is an expression of the fears many people carry about being unwanted or unloved. It blames mothers, and all women, for not providing the unconditional love that we all crave.”
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Linda Weber’s Life Choices: The Teachings of Abortion
[This applies to all people who can become pregnant]
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I pissed off some teen age kid at a table I was...
Me: I'm sorry, I'll be back with the right plate
Him: whatever
*as I turn to walk away*
Him: *talking to his friends* he's probably a homo, he's too distraught.
*i turn back to the table*
Me: you know, you shouldn't talk about the dude who's about to serve your food, right beside him. Also, learn the definition of homo, it's a root word that means, "man" in which yes I am a man, more of one than you will ever dream to be. So if you're intentions were referring to me being a homoSEXUAL as in MAN-sexual, which I am, then use a correct form of it. Now, sit there little boy, while this gay man goes to get your food for you.
*i leave and come back*
Me: here's your AIDs stuffed burrito you ordered.
His friends tipped me $20
My body is not a representation of my failures, sins, or mistakes. My body is...
– Avoid Holiday Weight Shame — Ragen (danceswithfat)
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I honestly don't even know what to title this.
constantjdude:
I was sitting in my room when my 5 year old sister comes running in bobbing up and down like she always does and jumps on my lap. I asked her how her day was and she said
“Well at school there is this mean pageant girl Acasia, she was picking on me telling me i wasn’t as pretty as her because i dont compete in beauty competitions. But then i remembered what you told me about how...